my daughter is 5 Shes autistic and adhd. I want my story heard i have no one that wants to listen. My child was born w cleft lip and palate so we expected a delay. By three she wasnt even babbbling or hugging and wouldnt answer to her name we would yell mady and shed stare off into space. I took her to dr after dr they all said its a phase shes ok. This child wouldnt sleep wouldnt eat had an obsession with silverware she hurt herself but never cried. They said its a delay shell do it when shes ready. By four still nothing tha tantrums got worse. Still just a delay or maybe shes a little hyper. In aug 08 She got out a lockd back door and ran down tha street. Dcbs got involved tha worker said ill bring you some locks and look into daycare for her because i was working third shift and i had 4 Kids. I called my husbnd crying and screaming he was rushing home and got into a wreck. He was life flighted to nashville tn. I was working third shift had 4 Kids husband in hospital and going to college. Mady didnt sleep. Shed look for her daddy. Mady got out of tha house again and i was charged with neglect lost all my kids for 30 days i quit school and my husband was in hospital in a wheel chair and couldnt help. Dcbs placed my older two with their dad tha baby with my husbands mother and mady with my sister. The worker said think of this is a break haha i broke down. She wrote so many untrue things in her report in order to keep my kids. Like dishes in the sink well yeah we jus had lunch. Laundry yes my washer had broken i was taking laundry to my mothers to do them. Just random things that made no sense. I told the worker i didnt know my sisters boyfriend and she assured me theyd do a background check. My sister took mady to a psychiatrist and she was diagnosed autistic and adha. I was allowed to go to that dr visit and he said i dont know how you kept hold of her this long and i just cried. Right before my court date my sister brought mady over and she was bruised all over her body she had been beat.......