My husband and I have 2 sons. The oldest is 10 and he was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome at age 3. The youngest is 5 and he was diagnosed with severe Autism at age 3. In addition to these diagnosis, both children have had medical problems and the oldest has a serious autoimmune disease that adds to the challenges he faces everyday. We are Christians and we know that the Lord chose to give us these precious children and we certainly don't take any of their milestones for granted. I know that alot of autistic children can't tolerate touch or affection but I am thankful that both of my boys are very affectionate and they desire physical affection (hugging, holding hands, cuddling). We've had alot of difficulties along the way, and we know there are many more to come, but we thank God for bringing us this far and for everything He's done up to this point in their lives. When my children were diagnosed I wish I had known someone who was in the same position so that I could seek counsel and advice, but I didn't. I was on my own for the most part. Now, in turn, it's nice to be able to talk with other parents who are new to the challenge and be able to offer some support when they need it.