My son was diagnosed at the age of 2 1/2 and he is now 27. My son works full time in a supermarket as a cashier, and lives with a roommate ( not autistic). He has a select group of friends (not autistic) and has really done quite well. He takes care of his bills and manages his money. He calls if he needs anything as I am about 3 hours away from him. We diagnosed him at around 2 years old when his montessori teacher said he repeats what others say. He did not speak sentences at this age. We had him in special classes and had occupational therapy since he did not like anyone in his space.He went through various movements throughout the years but now he has very few movements. He never was on meds for very long as I did not see any progress from them.

I would like it if there were more outlets for employment for someone like him and also social groups for adults with aspergers. But all in all he is very special and has done very well, but parents need to be there for them in school at work and in the community. I am sure as you know children can be very mean to others who are different. We had our share of that as well and he just kept on going with it all. He never gave up and we always told him he could be anything he put his mind to. He graduated college with a 3.0. That was a feat in itself. Many days my husband went to all his classes before school started so he would be familiar with the layout. We went to advisors, teachers, and explained his differences. It is a constant, but it is all worth it. NEVER GIVE UP. THEY HAVE GREAT POTENTIAL. JUST LOVE THEM.
Thanks for listening.