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Donna's Nick

by Pat on Oct 3, 2008 at 9:59 AM Filed in Stories from Readers

A Story by Donna Keyser

My son, Nick is somewhere between PDD and Aspergers. Nick has sensory issues that are always changing and never ending. At 12, he continues to suck his thumb when he feels insecure or threatened. School continues to be a nightmare for him as well as myself, and I am a special education teacher. Nick is a very bright child as both his dad and I know. Two of his teachers have also noted that he is a very intelligent young man. However, all of his teachers agree that he is not working up to his potential.

They have denied him the use of a Neoboard to aid in taking notes and completing assignments. Yet, if they feel his handwriting is not up to par, they make him re-write the assignment, which sends him into a tailspin, if you will. Any suggestions you might have would be much appreciated.

We do not have a diagnosis of Aspergers. We have been working from a diagnosis of ADHD. Yet, the doctor can't explain the sensory issues and the school district did not evaluate his ability to comprehend figurative language. I know that he has difficulty with figurative language because at 8 years old, I told him that his dad and I were taking the house back meaning we were going to regain control and he was going to listen to us and do as we asked, and in a very serious voice, he asked, "Where are you taking the house?"

As I said, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. 

Thanks,
Donna

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One Perspective of Nick

by Pat on Oct 3, 2008 at 9:47 AM Filed in Stories About Nick

By Judy - His Kindergarten Teacher

I probably have a hundred stories about Nicholas, since I was his teacher for a brief period in his life, but one sticks out above all others.

Knowing that he had been "kicked out" of so many classrooms already at an early age and the fact that his behavior was so volatile, I would understand if his knowledge base was limited. My classroom had children in Kindergarten and First grade, but cognitively the functioning level was so diverse. I had asked the group who could count to 100 and one little Kindergartener (shoes off, thumb in mouth) stated "by ones or tens". This same child answered me "English or Spanish". Also it was an election year. We had spent the traditional time spent on what I refer to as the "old dead white men" (Washington, Lincoln, etc..). When I asked who the President of the United States was, Nicholas once again had the right answer.Typically young children will spout out Washington's name; but not Nicholas. A couple of adults were also sitting ar ound the table and asked "Do you know who the Vice President is". Once again, Nicholas knew that Dick Cheney was the answer. Though he might not be able to sit still long and may not have appeared to be listening to today's lesson, he was able to answer the questions asked of him.

Asperger children do not fit the classic mold. They do not sit in desks quietly, read as directed and write down their answers in a timely manner. Since their learining is "non-traditional" the teaching they receive must be "non-traditional". Definitely will keep you on your toes. They can remember everything you say, but understand it in the most concrete ways. If you say I will love you to death, they will look for the body.

Nicholas grew that year, and so did his teacher. Godspeed my friend.

 

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